How to feel that you are loved. How to understand that he loves you

How to determine if a young man loves you? To do this, you need to analyze your relationship, remember how he behaves in your presence. Accordingly, how to understand that he does not love you? There are some signs by which this can be recognized.

A man in love can be recognized by the following signs:

1. In your presence, he begins to preen: straighten his clothes and tie, smooth his hair, straighten his shoulders and seem to become taller.

2. A man listens carefully to you and tries to fulfill your requests.

3. A man is looking for a meeting with you and - important! - makes an appointment. If you tell him “Maybe we can meet?”, And he answers “Well, come on” - it’s you who make a date for him, but he just doesn’t refuse. Many girls interpret this development of a conversation as an initiative on the part of a man. Nonsense. You don't have to deceive yourself.

4. A man catches your eye more often than it should be.

5. When meeting a man, he is primarily interested in your affairs, and does not seek to talk about his own.

6. A man is happy to help you.

7. A man wants to introduce you to friends and parents.

8. A man, speaking about himself and about you, uses the pronoun "we".

9. A man discusses plans for the future with you, and you are present in these plans.

10. In your presence, a man is transformed, some special interest and ardor appear in his eyes, his look burns, the man is filled with inspiration.

Signs by which you can understand that a man does not love you:

1. He is not looking to meet you. Everything happens as if by itself, but, in general, if you analyze your dates, then the initiative always (or in most cases) comes from you.

2. He does not distinguish you from other women in any way. You do not feel that he pays more attention and care to you.

3. When you meet, you listen for a long time about his problems and circumstances, he tells you for a long time about what kind of repairs his mother does, but at the same time your problems and circumstances do not arouse his interest, he listens to you out of courtesy.

4. He tells you about his plans for the future, but you do not hear the phrases “We are with you”, “We are together”, etc. You are not in his plans.

5. During a date, your young man gets a call from his mother-sister-acquaintance, and he calmly chats with them for a long time, making you bored.

6. If, in a similar situation, his mother calls him, and he leaves you with no hesitation for the reason that "Mom urgently needs to move the shelf."

7. A man "pulls rubber." It seems that he maintains relationships, but is in no hurry to develop them. In this case, he most likely either looks at you as an acquaintance with whom you can discuss your problems, or keeps you, as they say, “in reserve”. Not the best option for family life.

8. Whenever you try to find out what he thinks about the prospect of your relationship, you hear the phrases “I’m not sure”, “I will look for a girl who suits me”, and especially the phrase “It all depends on you” should alert you - it means that he relieves himself of all responsibility for your fate and invites you to prove that you are worthy of him. Agree, it doesn't look like love. The phrase "I'm afraid to ruin your life" does not mean at all that a man is so reverent towards you. He is not afraid of ruining your life, but he is afraid that he will have to marry you. As smart people say - if you want to understand what a person wants, do not listen to what he says. You have to understand what he wants to say.

9. A man is in no hurry to introduce you to either his friends or his parents, even if you ask for it. If you walk around the city and meet his friends, pay attention to how he introduces you to them: “Lena” or “My girlfriend”? Or even forgets to introduce you? Is he embarrassed that you were met together?

10. He often tells you about his past and present girlfriends without fear of hurting you.

Finally, the most important thing is that such questions do not arise from scratch, and if once you asked yourself them, then something is wrong in your relationship. published

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Instruction

A man can deceive with his words, but his eyes will not deceive him. If he loves you, it will show in his eyes. You just look into his eyes and read love in them. The only "but": you need not confuse a loving look with the look of a man experiencing passion. Because infatuation (love) and love are not the same thing. The look of a loving man warms you with its warmth, while the look burns you. His eyes are shining, as if devouring you. Love is warmth, passion is fire. Therefore, passion (love) quickly burns out, leaving nothing but ashes and pleasant memories. It is even easier to determine by the look of a man who is indifferent or cool towards you. He avoids looking at you, and in his eyes you will not find warmth and tenderness. Nothing but cold.

According to the words it is difficult to determine whether a man really loves you. The fiery words of a man in love with passion can easily be mistaken for love. Therefore, women who believe only words are often burned. When a man assures of his love and says that he cannot live without you, he cannot be convicted of a lie. Because he can be in love and sincerely believe in it himself. Or just good at talking. This is especially true for Don Juan, who know perfectly well that "a woman loves with her ears." But if it is, you will feel false. Therefore, you need to trust your feelings more than words. If you talk about your love and he keeps silent, this is not necessarily a sign that he does not love you. Or maybe he just does not know how to convey love in words. But expresses love in deeds and deeds, shows concern for you. Or he believes that talking about love and showing tenderness is a weakness. This is especially true for macho.

He wants to be with you more often and likes to spend time together. Although, of course, this does not mean that he will stop communicating with his friends. But still, he finds a reason to go somewhere together, and in public he tries to be near you. He likes your communication, and your opinion is important to him. However, even loving couples have periods when they get tired of each other's company. Especially when they closed themselves in the narrow world of their relationship. Therefore, you should not blame a man that he devotes a lot of time to friends or hobbies, or just wants to be alone for a while. Both of you should have some kind of personal space, this is the best way not to get tired of each other.

He is not indifferent to the people you love - parents, friends, and he tries to find a common language with them. He introduces you to his friends. But an even more sure sign that he loves you is if you are a divorced woman or a single mother, and he loves yours. Because it is part of you. If he seeks to meet only the two of you, perceives the child as a burden, pretends that he does not exist, or he cools off towards you after learning about the child - this is a sure sign that he really does not love.

He plans your future together. If he behaves as if you are each on your own (just met and fled), it looks frivolous. Unless, of course, you've been dating for quite some time. Although it must be said, family is not the only form of relationship. It happens that he and she meet, not living together and each living his own life. The question is whether this suits you and whether you will be satisfied with such a relationship in ten years. Separately, we can say about extramarital relationships, when a woman is a mistress. If he promises to divorce and marry you, but does not take any steps, do not flatter yourself. He is comfortable in this situation, you are wasting time. And also the opportunity to meet a man who will love you so much that you are the only one for him.

He loves you just the way you are. Does not inspire complexes about small breasts or excess weight, but admires your petite figure or your magnificent forms. In addition, he loves you not only for your appearance, but also loves your character. Loves to see you natural, without makeup, and also when you wake up with tousled hair. (Just don't overdo it.)

You just feel like he loves you. If so, you don't need any words or any other confirmation. You just feel loved and don't doubt it. But, if that were the case, you wouldn't be reading this article, right?

Therefore, you can use another method based on intuition. Just ask him a direct question if he loves you. The main thing is not his answer, but how he behaves at the same time. Whether he looks away, tenses up, turns the question into a joke or smirks, how honest he is, etc. True, this method has one drawback: men really do not like this question. They are very annoying when a woman constantly asks "are you me?" It can be said that this is what irritates them most of all in women. If you want to know the answer to your question, ask. But only one and only time.

You can find out if he loves you by your actions. Love has many definitions, because each person loves in his own way. But still, when a man loves, he shows care, tenderness, supports you and shows attention to you. This is a surer sign than words. "If you want to know a person, look at his actions." The only "but": if this is not the case, you should not blame the man for not paying attention to you. Moreover, you should not demand from a man some actions in relation to you. It's useless. If this is not the case, then no, you cannot force a man to love with reproaches and demands. Just draw your own conclusions.

Just as "a friend is known in trouble", a person is known in an extreme situation. Of course, you should not arrange checks and create such a situation. But if you - God forbid, of course - find yourself in a difficult life situation, only then will you be able to see if a man really loves. Whether he will hide for the time being, whether he will leave in difficult times or will substitute his strong and reliable shoulder.

How to see love? How to feel it? And how do you know if you are loved? After all, men are often so restrained. Maybe love can be read in the eyes of a man? Hear in his words? See it in actions? In all likelihood, yes. And what signs are characteristic of men when they are in love? With boys, for example, everything is clear.

If a boy likes a girl, then he will not bypass her with his attention: he will pull her braids, throw snowballs and happily carry her portfolio from school to home. He will also try to catch the eye of the girl more often. And hang around for hours under her windows, hoping that she will come out into the yard. To again pull the scythe or throw a snowball. How do men behave when they are in love? How to know if a man loves?

"They all lie." "They only want one thing." Such words are likely to be told to you by your girlfriends about men. Yes, you have had similar thoughts.

Well, someone is lying. And some of the men only need to put the woman they like into bed. But why is a woman given a very powerful natural intuition? A woman will be able to recognize a lie and distinguish a habit from real delight, and feelings from a simple desire to please. Of course, the soul of a person, if he does not want to himself, is impossible to understand. But if you look closely at a man, you can see a lot.

And there is no need to guess and tear off chamomile petals, looking for an answer to the question: “does he love me”? This answer lies in the look of a man, his words and deeds. And if you ask someone: “Does the guy I like love me,” it’s only for myself.

There are signs by which you can determine the love of a man to you with greater or lesser certainty. About a dozen such signs will definitely be typed. You just need to look at them. And to understand, if of course you understand for yourself, .

What to pay attention to? As stated, this is:

• eyes;
• the words;
• deeds.

Shall we try?

1. And I keep looking, I don’t take my eyes off.

It's simple: a man does not take his eyes off you. Your appearance simply attracts his gaze, and he cannot do anything about it.

He does not notice other women. They don't exist for him. Walk past him now Angelina Jolie arm in arm with Sharon Stone, he doesn't even look at them.

In his eyes admiration and delight. Do you know what it is? These are the feelings that accompany love. And protect it like an airbag in a car protects the driver. If you catch such a look directed at you, you will, of course, understand that this is love.

2. Bah, what a meeting!

A man under any pretext is looking for a meeting with you. He will find out where you live, find out your phone number, wait for you at a bus stop or at the subway. You will "accidentally" run into him in the most incredible places. But all meetings will be scheduled by him.

It's not love yet. But when he tries to spend all his free time with you, forgets about football, gatherings with friends and Saturday beer - this can already say a lot. What it is: the desire to be with a person every hour, every minute; talk to him; look into his eyes? Without a doubt, love.

3. Every joke makes sense.

The guy often jokes with you. Taunts you. You and him are funny. But funny in a different way than others. Because jokes and jokes have a special meaning for both of you.

A joke in your direction is a sign of attention. He doesn't joke with anyone anymore, does he? So, apart from you, there is no one else for him. Only you. Isn't it in you?

4. I will be frank with you.

The guy is very honest with you. He talks a lot about himself and his family. He even shares his dreams.

Why did it happen? It's not just like that, is it? And if a guy is so frank, trusting you completely, then you have become a close person for him. This is only possible with a friend or someone you love. And since friendship between a man and a woman without love is like smoke without fire, what then? Draw the right conclusion yourself.

5. Tell me about yourself.

He bombards you with questions. Everything that concerns you, he is terribly interested. Where were you born? Do you have brothers and sisters? What do you love and what can't you stand?

He wants to know your thoughts. your intentions. He expects you to be as open with him as he was just with you.

He is interested in your personal life. He wants to know everything about you. Why, you ask? And he likes you very much. And even more. However, you already understand this.

6. I remember a wonderful moment.

A guy or a man remembers everything related to you. And he will give verbatim your words and phrases, and with the intonation with which they were said. He remembers all your meetings with him, starting from the first minute and ending with the last second, not to mention the first. And all your actions are imprinted in his memory forever.

He subtly feels your mood. And he will always read a desire in your eyes, which he will immediately rush to fulfill.

It is impossible that he did not notice a new dress or shoes on you. Not to mention the hairstyle. Moreover, even a new varnish on your nails will not be left without attention. What does it mean? Only one thing: you are loved by this person. And what kind of a man will make a husband. Dream!

7. You are chosen.

A guy treats you differently than other girls. He makes you stand out. You are chosen by him. What he would never do for a stranger, he gladly does for you.

He is obliging, as it seems from the outside. But you understand that this is just attention and care. And he gives it only to you. And he literally glows when he is next to you. If this is not love, then what is?

8. I will give you Moscow.

He cares absolutely nothing for you. No energy, no time, no money.

Ask him to take off his last shirt for you, give the last ruble, and he will do it without any regret. He is always there at the right time. And he is always ready to help, whether it be day, night, heat or severe cold. You can be sure of his love for you.

9. Do you want to go to sea with sails?

This sign is related to the previous one and also most of all indicates that a man loves you. For the best proof of love is an act.

He loves you if he is ready to give up everything for you and leave for an unfamiliar city. And if you are ready to throw yourself into the water, not knowing how to swim.

And he is also able to get for you from the sky that little star that shines brighter than others.

But that's not all. If a man loves, then he:

• does not arrange scandals from scratch;
• completely trusts a woman;
• respects her opinion;
• keeps the given word;
• always tactful and delicate;
• hugs so that it takes your breath away;
• makes love like it's the first time;
• proud of his woman.

It turns out that the question: “how to find out if he loves me” is completely resolvable, because it is not so complicated. And to get an answer to it, you need to love yourself. No exit option. To love a man is like a deep pool. Making mistakes again, not regretting them at all. And listen only to your heart.

Doubts that you are loved can appear even in the most confident person. Especially at the very beginning of a relationship. And also others often add fuel to the fire: “He treats you badly”, “Your relationship is not developing at all the way it should be”, “Did he act like that? Not? So it's all hopeless." And although you did not ask for any opinions or advice at all, the inexorable worm of doubt begins to regularly eat you from the inside.

Listening to others is a thankless task. For at least three reasons:

• Each person is different and expresses feelings in their own way. And if your partner did not act as the neighbor Aunt Varya sees fit, this does not mean that he does not love you.
• Any specific relationship is its own separate story. And it cannot develop according to some mythical rules. The main thing is that partners should be comfortable in these relationships. In addition, you have some of your own expectations, principles, ideas about how it should be. And they do not always coincide with the opinions of others.

Or maybe you are not influenced by someone else's opinion, but for some reason you still do not feel confident in the feelings of your partner. Be that as it may, if doubts already exist, they need to be fought (or confirmed). Of course, it is impossible to draw up any clear pattern that a serious-minded partner must comply with. As mentioned above, people are not programmed robots, and each person can express feelings in his own way. But there are some signs that every truly loving man has in one combination or another. Do not look for the entire list in your partner - you will see only those manifestations that are inherent in him personally!

How to understand that a man loves you?

His behavior

If you don't want to take words into account - pay attention to how a man behaves with you or in your presence. The presence of tender and serious feelings, according to psychologists, is evidenced by the following signs:

He is constantly looking at you. Sometimes even stealthily. Probably, you have come across such “romantic espionage” when a man does not want to be “caught by surprise” at all. Therefore, if you “catch” such a look, the partner will most likely look away and be embarrassed, pretending that nothing like this happened. And during the conversation, the man openly looks into your eyes. But no, not brazenly, undressing with a glance (this is already a habit of “sultry machos” who are not in the mood for a serious relationship), but as if establishing an invisible connection between you.

He always finds time for you, even if it is difficult with his incredible busyness. Psychologist Eli Finkel (American Northwestern University) believes that people who are serious about relationships tend to spend every free minute with their "soulmate". Is it possible for a man to meet you? Then he will definitely find time for phone calls or SMS. He will be there, if not physically, but emotionally.

He is looking for a meeting with you. A man offers plans for joint leisure and does everything to make them come true. Or does not offer anything, but simply suddenly appears in those places where you did not even expect to meet him. If you have to take the initiative, and he only graciously agrees, it is unlikely that we are talking about some deep feelings.

O does not accept you for who you are. For him, you are an ideal, despite all your shortcomings (and who does not have them?). He hates cats, but, courageously clenching his teeth, scratches behind the ear of your fluffy domestic usurper? You did not have time to put yourself in order, and the man suddenly appeared at your house? For him, at this moment, you will still be the most beautiful. Does he not like the music you love? He respects no matter what. your choice.

He tries to look better in your eyes. This can be expressed in the "filtering" of speech: a lover of "strong" words is expressed in front of his lady almost in Pushkin's poems. Or in your presence, a man begins to preen: straighten his hair, straighten his shoulders, or even try to appear taller.

He is really interested in you. When you meet, a man does not try to blurt out all the news from his life in one gulp. No, he is interested to hear how you live you. He asks you about business not out of politeness, but because it really matters to him to know.

He notices the changes that happen to you, whether it's a change of mood or a new hairstyle.. Remember the joke about the gas mask: “Did you pluck your eyebrows?” So, with a truly loving man, this situation will never happen.

He cares about your opinion. Even if you think that it is the man who should make the decision on all important issues, a loving partner will take into account your position and will try to find out what you think about this or that matter.

Your couple in society

By the way a man behaves with you in the presence of others, you can also say a lot. Here are three main signs that speak of serious feelings and intentions:

He wants to spend as much time alone with you as possible. Because every man is an owner. And he will try to do everything so that you catch the eye of his potential rivals as little as possible. But at the same time, a man does not hide you from his loved ones.

He willingly introduces you to his social circle. With friends, work colleagues, good acquaintances. With this, the man, as it were, announces to the world that you are together, and that this is for a long time. That he has plans for your future together. If a partner hides you from his surroundings - a reason to think. As well as if he nevertheless decides to introduce you to someone, but will present you not as a beloved woman or his girlfriend, but as a girlfriend or even just an acquaintance.

He introduces you to his family. Acquaintance with parents knowingly at all times was considered an incredibly serious step. Relatives are not introduced to fleeting hobbies! Therefore, if you have been together for six months, and the man has not introduced you to his parents and other brothers and sisters, then we have bad news for you.

The manifestation of truly masculine qualities

Who is a man by nature? First of all, he is a provider and protector. So it is provided by nature itself. Therefore, the manifestation of the main male qualities is the best way to say that your partner really loves you:

He wants to provide for you. Even if you do not yet live with him and are not financially dependent on him. A man will always try to find out what you need, whether it be a rug in the hallway or new boots, and try to provide it for you. He will put your interests ahead of his own. If he has to choose between spending on his hobby and buying something you need, the latter will "win".

He protects you. And we are not talking about hooligans in the alley (at least not only about them). A man tries to save you from any hardships and solve all your problems: he will fix your car, nail the shelves in the bathroom, deal with impudent neighbors, help solve a psychological dilemma. You know that you can turn to him for any question - even at 3 o'clock in the morning.

He cares about you. A man will never let you go home alone in the evening. He doesn't care if you're cold or not. He pampers you with all sorts of little things that you love (and you don’t have to talk about them in detail - he himself will “gather information”). And if you suddenly get sick, the man will not "empathize at a distance", but will rush in with medicines, oranges and intentions to stop the planet if it is necessary for your recovery.

What do the scientists say?

While women from all over the world are building their own theories regarding the signs of “indifference” of men, scientists are also not sitting idly by and are conducting various experiments on this topic. And here's what they found out:

Men are dumb with love. In general, it is believed that the state of being in love does not have the best effect on the intellectual abilities of representatives of either sex. But it's not. Neurologists from New York Syracuse University conducted an interesting experiment, during which it turned out that women in love ... get smarter! But men are the opposite. The experiment involved 30 people (men and women aged 18 to 29 years). All the “test subjects” were in strong relationships and experienced sincere and deep feelings for their “second halves”. The participants of the experiment were asked to cope with a number of simple mathematical tasks in a limited amount of time. Not only did women do it three (!) times faster than men, 89% of the answers of the fair sex were correct. Men managed to correctly solve only 15% of the tasks.

Scientists have come to the conclusion that it's all about hormones. In the body of a woman in a state of love, many times more oxytocin, dopamine, vasopressin and adrenaline are produced than usual. These hormones have a beneficial effect on intellectual abilities. But this does not happen with a man in love. The level of the above hormones remains the same in his body or increases slightly. Accordingly, intellectual abilities do not undergo significant changes. But falling in love in some cases can “slow down” some cognitive processes in a man (associated with attention, memory, speech, etc.). Accordingly, the representative of the stronger sex is really capable of "stupid" from love. If your chosen one, who is actually a very smart man, in your presence begins to think more slowly or experience speech problems - this is a great sign!

However, it must be remembered that this hypothesis does not apply to all men. With the intellect of a part of the representatives of the stronger sex, absolutely nothing happens during falling in love. Therefore, if you do not notice signs of "stupidity", do not rush to draw conclusions. It is better to look at other "symptoms" of male love.

If a man has serious feelings for a woman, next to her he slows down. This conclusion was made by scientists Kara Wall-Sheffler and Janelle Wagnild from Seattle Pacific University. The experiment involved 11 couples (the average age of the subjects was 22.5 years, the youngest subjects were 18 years old, the oldest were 29). All men and women were also asked to bring friends of both sexes with them. Not everyone was able to fulfill this request. Only 14 friends were able to come (eight women and six men).

The main participants were asked to walk different distances as follows, measuring their speed every 100m:

• one at a time (the average step speed of men was 1.53 m/s, women - 1.44 m/s);
• in pairs (first in the usual way, then holding hands);
• together with a friend of the opposite sex;
• with a friend of the same gender.

It turned out that when he walks with his woman, his walking speed decreases to 1.44 m/s (that is, to the speed of his partner), if the couple is holding hands - up to 1.43 m/s. The step speed of the ladies remained the same in both cases.

Next, the participants were asked to take a walk with friends of the same and opposite sex. When two men walked together, they both accelerated by about 4%. Two women, on the contrary, slowed down their step (the speed decreased by an average of 3%). But when a representative of the stronger sex walked with a girlfriend, they unconsciously reached a certain compromise. The man slowed down a little, and the woman accelerated. Their total average speed reached 1.48 m/s.

Kara Wall-Scheffler and Janelle Wagnild attribute this primarily to biological causes. Excessive energy expenditure on the part of a woman can affect her fertility. Therefore, if a man adjusts to her step, he cares (albeit, most likely, unconsciously) about their joint future offspring. And this, like nothing else, speaks of the most serious intentions!

Also, a slow step indicates that spiritual closeness has been established between those walking. This is inherent not only to a romantic couple, but also to two female friends. Slow walking allows companions to spend more time together. But male friends are not prone to sentimentality, therefore, when walking together, they do not slow down their steps.

Pay attention to the man's walking speed when you walk beside him. If he “slows down” to adjust to you, and you do not have to change your step in any way, his feelings are quite serious.

A man does not interfere with disagreements with you in some views. Psychologist Vanessa Bons, based on the results of her research, argues that even cardinal differences in opinion on a particular issue (even a sharp political one) will not overshadow the relationship if the partner truly loves. Because a loving man respects the views of his woman and understands why she adheres to them. And this will not prevent him from peacefully remaining with his opinion.

A loving man trusts. Psychologist Daniel O'Leary conducted an experiment, the results of which concluded that people who care about each other, it is important to be aware of events in the partner's life. They need to know where the “soulmate” is at one time or another. But this is not due to the desire for tyranny, tight control or manipulation, but because a loving person worries about his partner. A man in such a situation will simply ask on the phone where you are and what you are doing, and will be satisfied with a short answer. After all, he asked not because he suspects something, but because he cares and wants to know if everything is in order. But if you often feel in the presence of a partner, as in an interrogation by special services, besides, he regularly monitors all your social networks, cracking passwords, and reads messages on your phone - he would first understand himself, and then build relationships.

Probably, some readers were surprised why there was not a word about body language in the article - it's so important! Unfortunately, this information is practically useless. The fact is that men striving for unobtrusive and short-lived relationships sometimes try to achieve their goal by any means. And a good knowledge of body language and body language (and in general less self-presentation) helps them a lot in this. They may intentionally show a woman certain gestures that speak of love for her, which will have nothing to do with reality. The whole performance is to conquer your bed and move on. That's why reading gestures is not the best help. But if a man takes care of you and seeks to provide financially, this speaks of the most serious feelings and intentions. You can’t “fake” this: it’s too energy-consuming for a fleeting hobby.

Perhaps every girl at least once thought about how to understand that a guy loves you. Representatives of the weaker sex tend to romanticize relationships. They are embarrassed to ask about feelings directly, so they tend to look for signs of a man's love for a woman. It is worth putting aside various fortune-telling and tests, since careful observation of a young man can really reveal the secret of whether a guy is in love with you or not.

First signs

If an adult man still knows how to hide his feelings, then the signs of a guy’s love for a girl are literally in sight. Whether a young man is in love or not, his behavior will tell. Therefore, a girl should look at how he behaves and focus on the main points.

The fact that the guy is in love, first of all, will tell his behavior. It changes dramatically in the presence of the object of respiration. If a young man wants to attract the attention of a chosen one, he will definitely do something special, eccentric, daring. Even if the girl is still little acquainted with the young man, does not notice the eccentricity of his act and does not pay attention to whether the guy loves, his friends will definitely understand this.

The psychology of the stronger sex is different from the female one. When a man loves a woman, he instinctively tries to provide her with maximum comfort, to protect her, to protect her from various difficulties. After all, a man is a protector and a “stone wall”. He will not be at a loss, but will directly ask the woman what she wants, how to help her, etc. To become truly special for the chosen one, the young man wants to know everything about her. Therefore, he does not stop asking questions, asking the same thing 2-3 times.

Men love to be heroes. At the very beginning of a relationship, they simply cannot disappoint the chosen one. They try to please everyone. It is better for a loved one during this period not to say words of reprimand, this will greatly upset him.

Much can be determined by sight. In the question of how to understand that a guy loves you, the sign is almost unmistakable is the look. When two people fall in love, they look at each other in a special way. The man looks at the chosen one for a long time and with admiration, his pupils dilate a little. Although at this point it is important to separate the male instincts. A close and longed-for look does not at all mean that a man truly loves you. Rather, he simply evaluates appearance.

Non-verbal signs

How to determine whether a boy loves you or not if he does not say so directly. Often young people are embarrassed to open up about their feelings. Even when a girl asks about it, it is easier for them to lie or remain silent than to make a confession speech. However, non-verbal signs can give out interest. Even a man who is well versed in women cannot hide them.

One of these signs is an instinctive desire to be closer to the chosen one. Is it possible to love and not try to touch the object of adoration? It is unlikely that a guy in love will be able to keep his distance. Moreover, men by nature are conquerors and owners. The young man tries to approach his beloved, turn around to her when they communicate in a large company, as if by chance to touch.

A girl who doubts whether a man loves me or not should take a closer look at his facial expressions. The young man will not remain indifferent. The corners of his lips rise from any word of his beloved, and her joke can cause a wide smile on the guy's face. If a girl is sad, then the corners of her admirer's lips involuntarily fall down, expressing sadness.

With young guys, the situation is easier, since it is not difficult to check whether a boy who is inexperienced in relations with the opposite sex loves you. Even the pose will give it away. It has been noticed that young men in love during a conversation with a chosen one often keep their hands on their belts, clinging to the belt with their fingers.

The smell of the body, hair and perfume attracts any man in love. He will involuntarily try to inhale the scent of his beloved girl. Putting together all the signs, the girl can conclude that the guy is in love with me. Since it is not difficult to understand that a man loves you if he shows most of the verbal and non-verbal signs.

Psychology of the zodiac signs

All representatives of the stronger sex are different, although most show the same signs of falling in love. But astrologers believe that the stars influence the state and behavior of a guy in love. It is worth listening to their advice, as his zodiac sign will help to recognize the love of a man.

Sublime romantic love is possible with representatives of such signs as Cancer, Libra, Aquarius and Pisces. In relation to their soulmate, they show those signs of true love that girls like so much - tenderness, attention and care. Aquarians are loyal. The Aquarius man has only one girl, he simply does not notice the rest. Libras are patient. When a representative of this sign falls in love, he is able to listen to the chosen one for hours and endure all her whims.

Asking if a Taurus man loves me is pointless. The love of the representatives of this sign is manifested so clearly that it cannot be overlooked. When a Taurus guy loves, he tries to bring the relationship to an ideal state.

If Taurus is a romantic and idealist, then Capricorn is a sensible realist. True love brings Taurus to such a state that he is ready to create a fairy tale for the chosen one. The true love of Capricorns also manifests itself in the desire to build an ideal relationship, but they achieve this with practical methods.

A Scorpio man is able to fall in love with several women at the same time. But if Scorpio truly fell in love, he will direct all his passion to one chosen one. A guy under the sign of Virgo is ready to seek a girl for a long time. He patiently courts and methodically wins the heart of his beloved. A girl can say with confidence that a guy loves me if she notices all this in a young man. It is not difficult to distinguish the twins in love. They focus all their attention on the chosen one, trying their best to surprise and please her.

Sagittarius, Leo and Aries are complex natures. How to know that a guy loves you if he belongs to a fire sign? Leo will show himself in his true form - he will try to defeat potential opponents, striking the girl with erudition, courage and a sense of humor. It’s even easier with Aries, because it’s not difficult to find out if a guy of this sign loves you. These stubborn people do not like to beat around the bush, they do not understand and do not accept protracted courtship. Most likely, they will directly tell the chosen one about their feelings or do something bold that will leave no doubt in the girl’s heart. Sagittarians are surprised by the fact that they do crazy things for the sake of their beloved. However, they will go into all serious trouble only if they are absolutely sure of their feelings.

If a man is married

Not every girl admits that a married man loves me. Too often married men look for fresh feelings on the side without serious intentions. However, the feeling has no definite framework, even a time-tested marriage can collapse due to the fact that the spouse truly falls in love. How to understand if a married man loves you or just pretends to be in love?

If a man who loved his wife suddenly flares up new feelings, he will try to hide them. Only inveterate womanizers openly make appointments with their passion, on the second day they declare their love and do not try to control themselves at all. Such behavior is a clear signal that the man is not in love, but is only looking for a temporary relationship on the side. A married man in love is aware of the complexity of the situation. He is in no hurry to cross the point of no return.

A married person does not act openly, but often seeks "casual" meetings with his beloved. He tries to help her, but keeps his distance. Often helps not personally, but through friends. When meeting, he shows gallant behavior. He is interested in the life of his beloved, her tastes, passions. However, a married man needs time to understand whether you love or not, so a cautious relationship can drag on for a very long time.

Hiding feelings?

Often girls are lost in the question of how to understand if a guy loves you. On the one hand, he behaves like a lover. On the other hand, he does not take any steps. Ladies often attribute this behavior to shyness and secret love. But how do you know if a man loves you if his behavior does not say so.

Romantic natures tend to believe in relationships that don't exist. They mistake clear signs that the boy does not love for the exact opposite. For example, if a young man looks at a figure, then most likely he does not love you, but simply experiences sexual desire. When they fall in love, they are interested in the soul of a person, and not in his external data. Another erroneous sign that a man is in love is his "shyness". Many women take for timidity the unwillingness of a young man to devote more time to his chosen one and introduce him to his surroundings. No two men have the same character. However, in this matter, the behavior of almost all men is the same. Subconsciously, they are big children, so they just need the approval of adults to continue the relationship. If a young man likes you, then he will spend a lot of time with you and will definitely introduce you to friends and relatives.

And yet it happens that a man loves, but for some reason hides his feelings. How to understand that a man really loves you in this case? Usually, representatives of the stronger sex try not to show their interest if they:

• married;
• afraid of being rejected;
• do not want to look weak;
• cannot sort out their feelings;
• are embarrassed by their age, external data, etc.

However, it is difficult to resist the external manifestations of love. Therefore, you just need to pay attention to behavior, since it is not difficult to recognize a man in love. As a rule, the surest sign is change. If a person begins to behave unnaturally, is embarrassed, or, conversely, indulges in all serious, most likely, he is secretly in love. Moreover, such a reaction is manifested in the presence of one woman. A man cannot truly love two ladies at the same time. And if he is a womanizer and meets several girls at the same time, then, as a rule, he does not change his behavior.

Another sign of secret love is increased attention to appearance. The guy takes care of his skin and hair, tries to look fashionable, polished and ironed. He wears perfume and a bunch of body care products.

The guy prefers not to open his feelings to the girl, but he still wants to be with her, so he will look for ways to be together - help with lessons, fix the computer, accompany to the tire shop, etc. Of course, the look will tell you if a man fell in love with you or no. If a man loves, he looks at the girl with adoration, openly and passionately. Secretly in love will look often, but on the sly. However, this view is no less expressive.